middle person again

once again i'm stuck in the middle. because one party cannot make decision, the other party keep forcing to have an answer. what am i suppose to do? if i ever make a decision, one of the party will get hurt, it is either this one or the other one. i wished to help one party but the other party couldn't make up it's mind and i got hurt by the one party. sometimes i think that there is no even, when you want to take care of something or someone, you can't have the time for another one because you can't split yourself into 2 person. sometimes how i wish i could talk with somebody than keeping it all to myself but this could hurt someone's reputation.what to do but to keep to myself alone? i also wish that someone could understand me not only you or you. if you think you're the one who got hurt most, what about the middle person who got strike from both side?think twice.......